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i am not the best casual communicator. im not great with nor interested in “hey hows it going”s or “i’d love to meet up sometime.” i take control in my life on the day to day and i am specifically looking to relinquish control with a play partner or dating partner. i dont want to change my relationship status with my partner. i probably dont even want more than just good sex and good communication from u in an ongoing dynamic situation. i need u to propose a plan, float an idea, offer a meeting. i am looking to alleviate my burden of being in charge, not add to it and then feel guilty when i dont have the capacity ur looking for. spark my interest and keep my attention and i’ll give u the same energy in return.